I Have No Friend - What should I Do?

People want to have a lot of friends. But when a persons was alone and wanted to have at least a couple of friends, what should they do? We need friends to develop our selves, both mentally by having them by your side in bad and good days (especially bad days). We need them when we got troubled. We need someone to listen all our stories. If we don't have any, how we could have it.

Tips 1# introspect yourself: are you an egoistic person?

Be true to your self! Are you a type of a persons who always want your needs and wants to be full filed, regardless what other people needs? If anyone have a fault, do you a type of a persons that directly angry to the person? But when you do the fault, you just hide it?

The best advice is not by giving all you have to the person you consider a friend, but just be a person who consider others persons. Who wants to be a friend with an egoistic one?

Tips 2#Don't give free negative advice

It will be consider harsh if you give a free negative advice, unless the persons wants your advice. Free advice + harsh tone often regarded as an insult no matter what your truly objective behind your advice.

Tips 3#Be present in a little thing 

Give your friend a happy birthday letter or give them a merry Christmas cards hand made by your.... Congratulate people when they have a good day like promotions, or any happy days. Be present also when a friend is in a bad situations... No need for advice, or gift... sometimes people just want to be accompanied during their bad situations.